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compete

I read an article today that was a huge contradiction within itself.  Rather than reply on the page where it was posted and start a dramatic debate Ive decided to type out my thoughts.

The article is about the serious issue of teen suicide and factors that may contribute, including the pressures on kids by their parents.

What is it saying though?

On one hand Oh we coddle them and dope them and yet we expect so much of them.

Well, stop coddling them and train them for life, but for fucks sake don’t lighten your expectations.

Don’t undo everything for them.  Don’t demand they get unearned trophies.  Let them figure out how to fight their own fights.  These kids are committing suicide, in part because theyre sadly disabled by our enabling!

Highschool, and all school for that matter, is a perfect training for life.

Good, I’m glad my son has to figure out how to balance and give.  That is life.

Some things are unfair, some people are mean, some things are hard.   Good.

Sacrifices have to be made, failure has to be digested, sometimes help is needed and sometimes victory is celebrated.  Yep.

Between my job(s); my company; my kids; my home(s); my marriage; my racing etc – Its all I can do to balance anything more.  I see people with multiple relationships that they give attention to and I know that I don’t have anything left to give.

And guess what, the world is not the same as when I was skating thru school, under-achieving and ‘not living to my potential’.

I recruit.  I know.

I see the best of the best, fighting for a job.  I look over students with a 2.9 because you know what, I want a 4.0 or better.  That’s why.

My kids have to compete and I cant do it for them.

Bottom line, Galatians 6:7-9 – You Reap What You Sow

I don’t accomplish anything or make any sort of impact on the world around me when I race.  Its just a metaphor.  Its personal but I hope everyone can find their ‘thing’ that keeps them going.  Its not something you can teach your kids or anyone else, but if nothing else I hope deeper than any other hope, that everyone can find their own driver that keeps them going.

In all likelihood, my youngest wont get in the NBA, My oldest wont get a full ride to a D1 playing lacrosse and I wont qualify for Boston – but you know what – we have Things that we enjoy and are good at – then we have our day jobs.

Don’t give up people.

 

Feel free to read said article yourself http://totalsororitymove.com/a-message-to-teenagers-it-really-does-get-better/?fb_action_ids=10203174424822776&fb_action_types=og.likes&fb_source=other_multiline&action_object_map=%5B362386463902934%5D&action_type_map=%5B%22og.likes%22%5D&action_ref_map=%5B%5D

good and well

We are all naturally self-interested.  I particularly demand success from myself at the exceptional level.  I notice a new generation of our youth so enabled, disabled and entitled.  I am part of the creation of this new breed of youth, described lovingly by our first-lady as knuckleheads.   People are mad at her but sadly I agree.

I want to let them go play outside but I cant (for fear for their safety), I want to leave them at home alone but I shouldn’t (because they’ll blow something up).  It doesnt matter that much younger than them I could come home alone after school, WALK from the busstop, cook my dinner and do my homework….  I had a house and a husband and a kid at 25, and now 25 yr olds can be on their parents health-insurance.  The world is different.

How do I demand the same level of accountability and achievement from my children?  How do I make them want and try and care?

And as I sit here and analyze a lifetime of passion to do great things – things that make me feel good, I examine my endeavors.  Would I be just as happy to do good deeds if it didn’t bring me the sense of fulfillment and satisfaction?  This is a debate as old as time, Are all good deeds inherently selfish?

From acts of heroism to picking up litter off the ground, you either get off on it or you don’t.  I do.

Just like a runners’ high, which although somewhat chemical, it is also a physiological.   I think the key is to find your thing, be faithful in your ability to accomplish it and defeat any forms of doubt that attempt to stand in your way – not just the voices on the street, but the ones in your head too.

I keep thinking what I’m attempting cant be done.  The 24-Hours of running & the raising of $ for my cause – AND later down the road, really helping to change the way people live and care for themselves.   I don’t want to fail – but what does that even mean?

When God appeared to Moses in a burning bush – Moses doubted himself.  He heard God’s assignment to him and it not only sounded outrageous, he explained to God why he was NOT qualified for the job.

Who is Moses to question what God has called him to do?  And what better crew chief could Moses ask for than God.

And guess what, if the latest form of doubt/resistance I face is the questioning of my intent, I reject this.   I’ve got this!!!!

I am happy to find a way to weave meaning into my purpose and if that joy is selfish, so be it (amen).  I wish for everyone to have the same – especially my boys.  Hear your calling and follow.

luv K

wait/weight?

I’m 5’4” w/out heals.  I was 120 something pre-kids.  My weight has danced around 140 give or take in a twenty pound window most of the last 15 years.  I hardly exercised at all prior to around 2005 or so when Steve bought a treadmill.  I don’t think I ever got above four miles on it, but then one day, I decided to run outside (what a concept right).  I enjoyed it but the idea of racing never even crossed my mind – I just jogged around our neighborhood in the mornings and it became my thing.

Fast forward to 2009 when I see a post on facebook from my friend Donna who says she has a bib for the Army Ten Miler, Does anyone want to join her?

Having never run more then five miles, I say I’ll do it.  I go into it thinking I wont finish, but I do.  And from that day I am hooked.  I quickly sign up for a half, thinking, Its only three more miles, and this time I’ll actually train!!

Six months later I’m registered for my first full, and while training, I get down to 120# soaking wet.  I complete MCM pretty slow.  I’m thin, but I’m not healthy.  I think I eat better than most people, because Ive been gluten free for the last 7  years, I only eat lean protein, don’t drink soda etc but really, I don’t have a clue.  I don’t know what clean means and I have a lot to learn.

In the next month or two I start lifting.  I put on ten or more lbs.  But I’m fitter and I know it.  This is where I learn that the scale isn’t much of a truth teller after all.  If anything, I’m even smaller, and I run my next marathon nearly an hour faster than the first.  Then I do a 50k pretty fast, and a couple months later,  I do a 50 Miler.

Ok now I’m an Ultra runner.  I figure I’ll stay thin by my lifestyle alone, which is not only sustainable and maintainable, it is enjoyable for me and I have no desire to go back to anything else.

I race a lot.  I constantly refine my nutrition to make it that much better with little changes here and there.  But I am slowly putting on weight.  And not like good-muscle weight like I described previously, I mean I’m getting a belly.

Now today, this is who I am.  I exercise every day.  I do core and strength just as much as I run – so its not  unbalanced at all.  I even gave up the only two things I had left that weren’t healthy – I gave up the sugary liquid treats at Starbucks that I used to justify in my head w/ killer workouts or long runs.  And I 99% gave up wine – after all, its just empty calories.  So I eat clean/whole/real/un-manufactured or modified foods; only lean protein; nothing fried and rarely prepared by anyone else.  Very little sugar, gluten free, I drink a crap ton of water daily, infact it is the only liquid I consume besides straight up espresso sweetened w coconut oil – I could go on and on – the point is, there’s not much I can think of left to improve nutritionally.

I have done three cleanses in 4 years and I’ll tell you about them now.

I did Isagenix twice and Advocare once.

Isagenix was suggested by my holistic-wellness-sports-med dr; Advocare was recommended by my trainer as something approved by the Olympics for which she is training.  Trusting both of them, I tried both.

The first time I tried Isagenix I had a significant weightloss in a short period of time, the 2nd time I didn’t lose an ounce.  Here is why I think that happened.  Because in order to do it, you have to follow a meal plan, and there are even a few days you don’t eat anything.  So the first time it was prior to me knowing about clean eating – really label reading and portion size and frequency.  That change alone, plus the amount of water you are told to drink would drop lbs off anyone who didn’t live that way normally.  Read that last sentence a few more times, I stand by that a million percent and I think that applies to every plan/product out there today.

The second time, it just didn’t do anything for me because I already eat small, frequent, clean & leans meals.  My body had nothing to react to.  I think our body always needs something to react to, like the muscle confusion concept, its real – the body is smart and it adjusts.

When I did Advocare, I lost no weight.  But I did lose inches and feel fantastic.

I have never tried Shakeology or Beachbody etc – I imagine it is the same type of thing and lets face it, the concept works but its not about products in the end.  Its about us and what we do.  So pick a product, research them, theyre fairly indistinguishable to me but if anyone wants to chime in and tell me  how and why one is better than the other Im all ears.

–        Protein shakes are good – the cleaner the better – and the less crap you add to them the more affective they will be – period.  Read the labels, pick the one you like and don’t add a bunch of crap to it.  Now I use soy or whey and I add frozen bananas and whole raw almonds.  That’s my post-workout deal and/or breakfast replacement on the run.

–        HIITs training is the best.  Find some videos you like – I like Jillian and Bob.  I like kettlebells and I like to mix it up.  My biggest struggle here is boredom, if I’m at home I need a way to force myself to just stick it out for a minimum of 30 mins, preferably an hour.  A trainer or a video or a trip to the gym outside of the house will usually do the trick there to make me stay it out longer.

–        I’m not a run or workout w others kind of person.  I’m not a comradery/group-hug kind of girl.  I like to go solo.  Others thrive with others, whatever works.  Do your thing.

–        Clean food doesn’t come out of a jar, can or envelope.  It doesn’t have ingredients on it that you cant pronounce.  Shop around the outside perimeter of the grocery store.  Eat frequently and drink half your body weight in ounces daily of water, or more.

I’m not 20 or 30 anymore.  I’m 40.  There is no sense trying to figure out how I was 10 or 15 pounds lighter two years ago when if anything I’m exercising more and eating better now than I was then.

There are no magic products or secret codes.

DO MORE AND DO IT BETTER.  That’s all I can do.  Today.  Now.  And tomorrow.

<3

~K~

May 3rd & 4th I’m attempting my first 24-Hour-Ultra

I’m recruiting people to a) donate or b) register to run w/ me virtually for any distance for a minimum donation of $20

All runners will get a medal and I’m working with designer to make it special.

My cause is a fellow-runner, mom and friend named Jodi who is fighting cancer and has a stack of unpaid medical bills that keeps getting taller.  I’m sure you agree I think fighting for your life is enough to worry about w/out adding unpaid medical bills to the list.

You can click on the link to learn more – please help

http://gfwd.at/1ghMXSv

Thank you

<3 K

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